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Stephen Fosella
B: 1952-03-21
D: 2018-12-13
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Fosella, Stephen
Josephine Fedun
B: 1926-10-11
D: 2018-12-11
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Fedun, Josephine
George Dennis
B: 1946-12-11
D: 2018-12-09
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Dennis, George
James Cornish
B: 1934-12-10
D: 2018-12-08
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Cornish, James
Elizabeth Beckwith
B: 1929-02-18
D: 2018-12-03
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Beckwith, Elizabeth
Thomas Jones
B: 1948-03-08
D: 2018-11-30
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Jones, Thomas
Wilbur McMullen
B: 1923-01-08
D: 2018-11-29
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McMullen, Wilbur
Charles Monroe
B: 1921-06-11
D: 2018-11-26
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Monroe, Charles
Joseph Wallace
B: 1961-08-17
D: 2018-11-21
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Wallace, Joseph
Dorothy Southern
B: 1912-02-29
D: 2018-11-21
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Southern, Dorothy
Jean Wojdyla
B: 1930-05-19
D: 2018-11-20
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Wojdyla, Jean
Cliveton "Cliff" Wood
B: 1925-01-26
D: 2018-11-18
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Wood, Cliveton "Cliff"
Mabel Illingworth
B: 1918-07-21
D: 2018-11-18
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Illingworth, Mabel
Jenny Kenny
B: 1925-06-24
D: 2018-11-15
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Kenny, Jenny
Velma Wolcott
B: 1930-04-11
D: 2018-11-14
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Wolcott, Velma
Albert Tomasi
B: 1936-02-17
D: 2018-11-13
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Tomasi, Albert
James Lennon
B: 1946-06-02
D: 2018-11-11
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Lennon, James
Verna Alimboyoguen
B: 1924-09-20
D: 2018-11-10
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Alimboyoguen, Verna
Matthew Meyer
B: 1973-10-03
D: 2018-11-07
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Meyer, Matthew
James Wheeler
B: 1963-01-22
D: 2018-11-06
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Wheeler, James
Livia Goss
B: 1935-08-01
D: 2018-10-30
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Goss, Livia

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Tips on Writing a Message of Condolence

You may not know exactly what you want to say in your Book of Memories™ condolence message. In fact, this may be the first time you've ever been faced with sharing your feelings or offering comforting words to someone who is grieving a loss. Whether it's the first time, or the fifth, we're here to offer some assistance. We've compiled some tips, and brought together a list of expressive words you can use in your condolences.

Tip #1: Be sincere. It's important to mean what you say, on the deepest emotional level. Yes, we know, "saying what you mean" can be harder - that's why we're here.

Tip #2: Keep it simple. You don't need to say much more than "I'm sorry for you loss," yet it's always wonderful to share a personal memory of their loved one, if you have one.

Tip #3: Don't tell them you know how they feel. Because you can't really know; even if you've endured the loss of a loved one in the past - your grief was yours, and this is theirs.

Tip #4: Share how you felt when you heard the news. Perhaps you were shocked, disbelieving, or deeply saddened. Let them know how the passing affected you personally.

Tip #5: Share Remind them that you will always hold the memory of their loved one close to you. It will be a comfort to them to know that their loved one will be remembered.

A Short List of Appropriate Phrases:

  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
  • Please accept my condolences on the loss of your partner.
  • With deepest sympathy for your loss.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Please know our loving thoughts embrace you each and every day.
  • Thinking of you in these difficult times and sending you love.
  • With heartfelt condolences.
  • Wishing you comfort at this sorrowful time.
  • Sharing in your sorrow, thinking of you and wishing I could be there
  • to hold your hand.
  • May the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead.
  • Hold tight to memories for comfort.
  • Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.
  • As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Peace, prayers and blessings.
  • Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow.
  • You are in our prayers.
  • May your memories give you strength.
  • Remember that we love and care about you.
  • May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

After writing and posting a message of condolence to the family, you may also wish to make a memorial donation as a tribute to their loved one, or send flowers to the family home or memorial service. However you choose to express your concern and pay tribute, please know this: it will be deeply appreciated.